Wednesday, October 7, 2009

Is it really LOVE that hurts?



Well well... my question to everyone who reads this....Have you ever really been in love? Does it really hurt so much ? A friend of mine happened to meet me today, unfortunately his relationship with his high school sweetheart had come to an end...as he told me about his story n the way things happened i could feel the impression he had gathered about this emotion called LOVE ! He said its horrible because it makes you so vulnerable...opening your chest, opening up your heart so that someone can get inside you and mess you up. Well, he claimed he was perfectly " normal "till the day " that stupid girl " ( his words !) no different from all the other stupid girls walked into his life...and; he gave her a piece of himself...and then his life wasn't his own anymore. Love had ripped him apart he said !!! Just like all gud friends i sided by him ...n consoled me...however he soon left and left me wondering ...IS IT REALLY LOVE THAT HURTS?????

I guess, rejection hurts, loneliness hurts, parting hurts, distance hurts...but its never love that hurts...! And if u ask me...it is so beautiful that once ur out of it ...u want to fall into the whole thing again and again and again !!!

Love is always evolving, and changing intensity. The ability to morph from one person to another is one of the most beautiful qualities of love. The fact that people have enough faith in another person, in the joys of love, that they allow themselves to be vulnerable to such pain, is itself such a beautiful thing...!!! However the question still remains...is it really love that hurts?

"O tell her, brief is life but love is long."

- Alfred, Lord Tennyson



12 comments:

Vineet Bajaj said...

HAHHAAH awesome post..!!! looks like we gonna postmortem LOVE... Its not love that hurts, its the feeling of rejection and emptiness that hurts... trust me on this every human who go thru it get this at least one thing in mind "this is end of life" but with time they just move over it.THE REASON: as soon as u r dumped you have so much time in life out of no where and in that time you just think abt the old moments and give it the name love hurts and as soon as u get occupied and busy with life u are tend to over come.... and then u find a next person to again fall in love and u do bother abt "LOVE HURTS" :P LOL...!!! doesn't it sound like a vicious circle... hahah

For me i gues a friendship can be hurting and love is a feeling that never hurts, its the feeling of emptiness that can make u feel so 'vella' that u think u r hurt (more when u see the other person happy) isn't it Jealousy that's Hurting and not the feeling of love????

PaRUL SooD said...

you confuse me vineet...one one hand u say that its the end of life...n on the other u say that u get over it soon ???
and besides..i feel jealousy can never hurt..infact if u v really been in love...would you ever feel jealous seeing ur beloved happy ???????? i won't

Vineet Bajaj said...

its not me girl... its the world out there...... trust me... we are different but its like 2 out of 100...

Vineet Bajaj said...

its no where person specific.....!!!! its GENERAL :)

PaRUL SooD said...

Its not bt being different...its about everybody who's been in love..!!! Anyhow..as far as the jealousy is concerned ..im really not convinced!

Vineet Bajaj said...

Its not about being convinced... its abt the different kind of ppl out there.. and tel me how many guys or gals will accept the fact that they are JEALOUS... for them still its Love that hurts... u cannot see things with a perspective what u have in ur personal life.. lets consider mass...!!

PaRUL SooD said...

yeah ryt!!! i wasn't even talkin bt myself...it was mass only ! Lets just expect more comments on it who say they re jealous...probably that would convince me ! :)

Rachel C Miller said...

Thank You for your visit to my blog and your comment. I will have to stop back and read your blog more so as to absorb all the context within.

bEAST said...

Lo! Not another love post. Gosh! Though a good attempt at limiting love by the act of defining it, but not quite there. The fact is, love is not a pure emotion. It is a little bit of everything. Jealousy, Hatred, Lusting, Attraction, Infactuation, Speration. Diff ppl get to experience diff aspects of it. It is your good luck as to what you exp in love. Moreover, I know people who specially enjoy the seperation part of it. The painful parts.

And to tell you the truth, it is the painful parts of love that actually make you a maturer person. The bful parts just make you dumb and dumber. Srsly

PaRUL SooD said...

@rachel...hey thanx a ton ...it's always a pleasure readin wat u write...its simply b'ful
@beast... yess i do agree wd wat u said..after readng ur comment i think i dint really stretch my thoughts enuf !!! but as for the painful part, yes it does make u mor emature...but then it is very very painful !!!! :(

Rachel C Miller said...

I came back to read your post" is it love that hurts? " I believe it is lies that hurt, whether those lies are being untrue to yourself or those around you. Being evasive is just as good as being a lie, it leaves the other person hanging. If people spoke the truth and lived the truth, less people would be hurt.Can You imagine telling someone you love them, when you don't or just the opposite not telling them you love them when you do.
Love doesn't hurt it's the game people play that hurt.

PaRUL SooD said...

hey thanx rach ! yeah ur ryt...lies hurt ...i still havnt been able to figure out why ppl play this game in love...but then the only answer i get is that probably it takes a lot of courage to confess your love to someone or to tell somebody who loves u dat u dnt feel the same for him/her...n i think not many people have this couarge so they end up playing nasty games !

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